H & S

Torroella de Fluvià · Alt Empordà · Catalonia

HIDE and SEEK
are to be married on Friday the twenty-fifth of September, 2026. Guests are expected from Tuesday the twenty-second. Can Còdol de Fluvià · Girona, Spain
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Entirely fictional. Completely compulsory.

You are cordially summoned

Nobody is getting married. There is still a ceremony, a dinner, a first dance, a speech that runs long and an aunt who cries. We have simply removed the paperwork.

Five days in a masia from 1910, between the fields of the Empordà and the Mediterranean. Two mornings of actual work. The rest is a completely invented family feud.

With love, the mothers of the couple

22 to 26 September

The programme

Everything we do together is below. What your side does on its own lives on your own page, and for that you need a code.

Tuesday 22 September

Travel day
  • 15:30

    Taxis to Rotterdam Airport

    We leave together. Be outside and packed at 15:25 — the taxis will not wait for anyone who is still looking for a charger.

  • 18:00

    Flight to Girona

    Just under two hours. Eat something at the airport: dinner at the house is not part of tonight, and Spain is not one hour ahead.

  • 19:55

    Landing at Girona Airport

    Vans are waiting outside arrivals. Roughly forty minutes north to the house.

  • 20:30

    Arrival at Can Còdol

    Bags upstairs, rooms drawn from a hat. Take any complaints to the hat.

  • 21:00

    Exploring the house

    1,200 m² across three floors, a pool and a cellar. Pick your desk for tomorrow morning while you are at it.

  • 21:30

    Drinks on the terrace

    Cava, vermut, olives, something to eat. This is where you find out which side you are on and get your code.

Wednesday 23 September

Work day
  • 08:00

    Morning session — different per side

    One side rolls out a mat, the other gets in the water. Check your own page for what your side is doing.

  • 09:00

    Work and meetings

    Breakfast is served while we start. Wifi throughout the house; the library and the dining room are the quiet spots, the courtyard and terrace are not.

    Bring your laptop
  • 13:00

    Lunch

    Light, outside, and the official end of the working day.

  • 14:00

    Free afternoon — your side has a plan

    Pool, beach or something more active. Each side has its own optional outing. See your own page.

  • 16:00

    Pub quiz by the pool

    Bride's side against groom's side. Each side submits one round about its own camp, which the other side does not get to see beforehand.

  • 18:30

    Paella workshop

    Show cooking with the house chef, then everyone at the paellera. Sofrito, socarrat, and one argument about whether chorizo belongs in it. (It does not.)

    To be confirmed
  • 21:30

    Games night

    Cards, dice, and a game whose rules nobody explains properly. Bring one from home.

Thursday 24 September

Work day & activity
  • 08:00

    Morning session — different per side

    Day two, and each side has its own version again. See your own page.

  • 09:00

    Work and meetings

    Last working block of the week. Set your out-of-office for Friday and Saturday before lunch.

    Bring your laptop
  • 13:00

    Lunch

    Eat properly. The afternoon is the one real outing of the week.

  • 14:00

    Group activity

    Still being booked. The strongest options nearby: riding through the Aiguamolls nature park and along the beach, kayaking down the Fluvià, or karting inland. All within twenty minutes. Details follow before we leave.

    Being booked
  • 19:00

    Dinner

    Out, if we go to L'Escala — twenty minutes away, with the harbour and the square at Sant Martí d'Empúries among the Greek ruins. Otherwise the long table at the house.

    To be confirmed

Friday 25 September

The wedding
  • 09:30

    Breakfast

    Long and slow, and the last calm moment of the day.

  • 10:30

    Getting ready — strictly separated

    The two sides get ready in different parts of the house. What happens there is only on your own page. To the gate.

  • 12:00

    The ceremony

    Outside, behind the house. Ten minutes, two invented vows, no legal consequences whatsoever. Confetti and the group photo straight after — the group photo is not optional.

  • 13:00

    Wine tasting at Clos de Basella

    Small biodynamic winery in Siurana d'Empordà, fifteen minutes away. A walk through the vineyard and a tasting in the cellar or among the vines. Ask them for the version with food, or Friday runs from breakfast to eight o'clock on cava alone. Full outfits between the vines: the best photographs of the week.

    Book this first
  • 19:30

    Back and freshen up

    Half an hour to shake the vineyard dust off.

  • 20:00

    Wedding dinner

    Long table, several courses, speeches in between. Three minutes per speech, which will not happen.

    To be confirmed
  • 22:30

    First dance, then the cellar

    One rehearsed song, then we play records downstairs ourselves. Add your track to the shared playlist before you fly.

Saturday 26 September

Girona & departure
  • 09:30

    Breakfast

    Leftover wedding cake counts as breakfast.

  • 11:00

    Clearing up and packing

    Your own room on your own, the cellar and the garden together. An hour with everyone is enough.

  • 12:00

    Girona

    Fifty minutes south. Lunch in the Barri Vell, then the cathedral steps, the city walls and one museum. The Museu del Cinema works best with a group — plenty to switch on yourself. Bags stay in the vans.

  • 19:00

    To the airport

    Girona Airport sits fifteen minutes below the city, so the route works out. The flight is at 22:10, which leaves a long wait on the other side of security — eat properly in Girona before we go.

Two camps

Your side

Each side has its own page with its own mornings, its own outings and its own assignment. The other side cannot get in. That is the entire point.

Bride's side

Team Hide

Own morning session, own afternoon outing, and responsibility for the entrance.

Groom's side

Team Seek

Own morning session, own afternoon outing, and responsibility for the vows.

Your code is on your name card, handed out at the welcome drinks on Tuesday.

Dress code for Friday

Festive chic

All colours welcome. Yes, white too. Yes, red too. The only mistake available to you is making too little effort.

Think of what you would wear to a real wedding in the south: a linen or light wool suit, a jumpsuit, a midi dress, a blazer over something simple. Colour is welcome and encouraged — the only place where white and gold are the rule is this website.

Late September in the Empordà is mild: around 25°C in the afternoon, dropping to roughly 15°C after dinner. The tramuntana can pick up without warning, so bring something to put on over your outfit.

The ceremony is outside on gravel and grass, and the afternoon is spent in a vineyard. Stilettos will lose both of those fights. The rest of the week is ordinary holiday clothing, with two mornings where you appear on camera.

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Do

  • Colour, print, something with a story
  • Flat or block heel for outdoors
  • A layer for after sunset
  • Shoes you can dance in
  • Swimwear — the pool stays open

Don't

  • Black tie or a dinner jacket
  • Anything that needs dry cleaning
  • New shoes
  • Stilettos, for your own sake
  • A speech longer than three minutes

Packing list

Five days, one bag

Two working mornings, a river, a pool, a vineyard and a dance floor — and a flight, so check what your ticket allows.

For the wedding

  • Festive chic outfit for Friday
  • Shoes for gravel, and shoes for dancing
  • Jacket, shawl or cardigan for the evening
  • Your track for the playlist, chosen before you fly
  • One printed photo for the guest book

For working

  • Laptop and charger
  • Headphones — two mornings of calls
  • Plug adapter, type C or F
  • Anything your Wednesday meetings need on paper

For outdoors

  • Swimwear and a quick-dry towel
  • Sports kit for the morning session
  • Trousers you can cycle or ride in
  • Trainers for the river path
  • Sunscreen, sunglasses, cap

Practical

  • Passport or ID card
  • Some cash for the market and the bar
  • Refillable water bottle
  • Your own medication — pharmacy is 5 km away
  • One board game for Wednesday night

Music

The playlist

One shared playlist for the whole week. Scan the code, add your track, and it will be played at some point between the terrace on Tuesday and the cellar on Friday.

Spotify code for the Hide & Seek playlist — open Spotify, tap search, then the camera icon, and scan this
Open Spotify · Search · Camera · Scan

Open Spotify, tap the search bar, hit the camera icon at the top right and hold it over the code. It adds you straight to the playlist. If scanning fails, someone will drop the link in the group chat — but the code is faster than asking.

  • One track each, added before you fly. Two if it is genuinely good.
  • Nothing over six minutes. There is no dance floor for a slow build.
  • The first dance is not yours — that one belongs to the groom's side.
  • Anything you add can and will be played while you are working on Wednesday.
  • Clearing the floor on Friday is on the person who added the track.

Travel

Getting there together

Out of Rotterdam together on Tuesday afternoon, back from Girona late on Saturday night.

Outbound

Tuesday 22 September

Taxis at 15:30, flight at 18:00 from Rotterdam Airport, landing in Girona at 19:55, at the house by 20:30. Small airport, short walk to the gate — but be at the pick-up point on time, because the whole chain hangs on those taxis.

Return

Saturday 26 September

Check-out in the morning, the day in Girona, and off to the airport at 19:00 for the 22:10 flight home. Bags travel with us in the vans all day, so you are not dragging a suitcase around the Barri Vell.

Open the house in Maps →

Gifts

Nothing, and yet

The couple do not exist and therefore need no sandwich press. If you cannot arrive empty-handed, these five are worth more than one.

One song

Add it to the shared playlist before you leave. If it clears the floor, that is on you.

A printed photograph

Any photo, any year. It goes into the guest book with a badly considered caption.

A game

For Wednesday night. One each is twelve too many, so coordinate.

A speech

The most valuable gift on the list and the only one that costs nothing. Three minutes. Please.

Good to know

Small print

What is there to eat on Tuesday?

Not much before 21:30. We land at 19:55 and reach the house at 20:30, so the terrace drinks are the first food of the evening and they are drinks, not dinner. Eat at Rotterdam Airport or bring something on board.

Can the paella workshop happen on Wednesday?

The date is not the problem — there is no day of the week where this cannot work. It depends on the house chef and the capacity. The house has its own professional cook and works on a half-board basis, so ask there directly: show cooking with a large paellera for seventeen people, with the group joining in. If that falls through, caterers in the area will come out with a paellera, and there is a cooking studio in Girona that runs the same workshop — but then we are driving and it costs the whole evening.

What exactly is Clos de Basella?

A small organic and biodynamic winery in Siurana d'Empordà, about fifteen minutes from the house. They run a guided walk through the vineyards and the cellar, a tasting in their wine bar or among the vines, and a longer version with food between the rows. One warning: late September is harvest time in the Empordà, so they are busy. This is the first booking of the whole week, and worth asking for the version that includes lunch — the gap between a 09:30 breakfast and an 20:00 dinner is otherwise six hours of wine.

What is the Thursday activity?

Open, and Thursday afternoon is the right slot for it — nobody has to change outfits twice and there is no ceremony to be back for. Nearby: Hípica Aldebar and Hípica Arnau near Castelló d'Empúries and Empúries ride through the Aiguamolls and along the beach, Cavall al Centre in Albons works with small groups and has Dutch-speaking guides, kayaks are five kilometres away, and there is karting within fifteen. Riding and kayaking both cap out well below seventeen people, so either split the group or pick karting.

Are we going out on Thursday evening?

Dinner is at 19:00, and if we eat in L'Escala it is twenty minutes each way. Worth knowing: late September is the end of the season there. Restaurants and the cocktail bars along the Riells promenade are open, the larger clubs usually are not, and on a Thursday it is quiet. For dinner and a few terraces afterwards it is lovely. If anyone wants a real night out, that is Friday in the cellar, where we are playing records anyway.

How does the working part work?

Wednesday and Thursday from 09:00 to 13:00 are working mornings. Wifi throughout the house; the library and the dining room are the quiet spots, the courtyard and the terrace are not. Bring headphones — with seventeen people in one house there are always two calls at once.

Is this a real wedding?

No. Nothing signed here has legal standing in Spain, the Netherlands or anywhere else. The hangover is fully valid.

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Say yes

Confirm you are coming, whether you are on the group flight, and what the kitchen needs to know. We need the numbers before the chef does.

Please reply by 31 July 2026